What books should every child read? Books for conscious kids.
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What books should every child read?
I'm drawn to books with meaning, values and messages, so you'll find a list below of books my kids have loved, and I've loved reading with them. I've collated this list for a long time and am pretty happy. It's not for every child, but it's certainly worth a look if you're looking for some book recommendations for inspiring children's books.
I consider myself a conscious Mama, reasonably liberal and a social realist. My outlook will have influenced my own choices in books for my children. I tend to be the mum who reads and discusses issues earlier than most of my children's peersβ parents. I try not to shy away from sensitive topics (more on this below), and I prefer a drip-feeding approach in an age-appropriate way.
Who am I?
I'm Samantha, a mixed heritage British-born London-based family portrait photographer of predominantly children and babies. I'm a mother of an 11-year-old multiethnic boy and a 22-year-old multiethnic girl. Even though Iβm of mixed heritage, I identify as a black British mainly because of my culture and upbringing.
I feel I have something of value to share.
So it's time to speak to this question of what books should every child read. As a mixed-heritage woman of Black and Indian descent with multiracial children, I have a unique perspective I'd love to share.
How do you like to read?
I have read a lot of books with my children and without them. We have read together and solo. We have read on the sofa, before bedtime, on a train, plane, in a car, on a bus, in the doctor's surgery, on the beach.
Yeah, we've read a fair bit, and I still read most days with my son. But I'm pretty curious, how and when do you read with your kids? At what age will you stop, or did you stop reading with them?
What they like to read vs what I've chosen for them
Throughout the years, they've both enjoyed an array of books. They've had their phases of reading. I wouldn't say either of them are voracious readers, but they've both had their moments.
Whilst my son enjoys reading silly humour, a little fantasy, sports and wildlife on his own until well past his bedtime, I like to deliver other things through my reading with him, which he enjoys.
What We tend to cover in our reading.
We tend to cover life lessons, morals and serious topics in an age-appropriate way.
We've covered stories of:
courage and overcoming obstacles
difference and similarity
determination
confidence
independence
managing our mental and physical health and;
about being the best humans we can be whilst we are kind to ourselves too...
stories that relate to black culture, black joy, black boyhood and black womanhood
My daughter enjoyed reading humorous literature balanced with serious real-life issues when she was younger. She loved the author Jaqueline Wilson, a social realist, so she attracts readers who enjoy that balance of light entertainment and serious problems.
Social issues, gender, cultural and racial diversity and bias
I'm very open with my kids in an age-appropriate way. Often, our reading will cover diversity, race, culture, gender, class, and so on. For me, it's about tuning into compassion and acceptance through understanding.
As a black 'other' Mum who grew up in London, UK, I want my kids to see people who look like them in their books, educational materials, TV, sport, art, celebrity culture and most of all, everyday life. I didn't have this at all when I grew up.
I believe seeing people who look like us and our families, reading about people who look like us, or reading books written by people who look like us can offer relevance and connections, inspiration, understanding and impact where other literature cannot.
So, over the years, I've tried to become more conscious of choosing a variety of literature to ensure he sees everything he can in his reading.
Whilst I want him to see more people who look like him and his family in the material he consumes, I want to be sure he sees it all. All cultures, all perspectives, all people.
I also teach him how to read between the lines of literature that doesn't show diversity in the story and encourage him to ask and answer questions so we can have a discussion.
I welcome sensitive topics even at a young age.
In our reading, I've chosen kids' books about feelings and emotions and kids' books about diversity. I've also included kids' books by black authors and Asian authors. We've explored black characters, role models and a little history and even touched up death a few times.
I believe in educating children from a young age on sensitive topics; some do not share my opinion; however, I think reading about sensitive issues can be done in an age-appropriate way. So, I have chosen when I felt it was right to introduce specific topics to my children.
By doing that, I'm helping my children be more conscious, accepting and understanding of children and adultsβindividuals who will have, on some level, tools to help themselves.
We have spent far too long not talking about topics to our kids, IMHO, or withholding things until it becomes "necessary" to speak about things. So why make it a thing? Why not introduce things slowly anyway? It makes conversations so much easier when they are older - well, that's my own experience.
Therefore, we talk about these subjects in my home. I don't feel like I'm ruining them; instead, I empower them to be the best and most beautiful humans they can be for themselves and others.
Does this have anything to do with my racial background?
Well, yes, actually, hell yeah.
Why?
Because I'm all about educating my "mixed", "other", "multi-ethnic" (whatever we wish to describe them as!) children. I guess I've seen and experienced a lot in my lifeβracism, systemic racism, bias, and so on. What I do with reading is show my kids as much as possible to equip them with tools to help them in life.
No doubt, I want the best for my children. Although I'm sure they have and will experience bias in their lives because of their skin colour and ethnicity, I want them to treat all others as equals.
What books should every child read? Ages 7-12 years
Here are a few of the books that my kids loved. I'll start with ages 7-12 first and then a small selection for younger readers, too.
Malala's Magic Pencil
By nobel laureate Malala Yousafzai
This beautifully illustrated volume tells Malala's story for a younger audience and shows them the worldview that allowed Malala to hold on to hope even in the most difficult of times.
Wonder
"A landmark Young Adult novel that captured the hearts and minds of millions of readers, Palacioβs tender examination of physical difference and its emotional consequences is undeniably powerful. "
Waterstones
The boy at the back of the class
Told with heart and humour, The Boy at the Back of the Class is a child's perspective on the refugee crisis, highlighting the importance of friendship and kindness in a world that doesn't always make sense.
Varjak Paw
By award winning writer SF Said
The best-selling story of Varjak Paw, a much-loved story with stunning illustrations from Dave McKean
'Stylish, original and inventive, Varjak Paw is a modern children's classic' Jacqueline Wilson
Little Legends - Exceptional Men in Black History
An essential book for readers of all ages, this beautifully illustrated and engagingly written volume brings to life the true stories of black men in history.
New York Times bestselling author-illustrator Vashti Harrisonshines a bold, joyous light on black men through history.
The London Eye Mystery
The London Eye Mystery is a children's mystery novel by English author Siobhan Dowd. First published in 2007, it tells the story of how Ted, a boy with Asperger syndrome, and his sister Kat, solve the mystery of how their cousin, Salim, seemingly vanishes from inside a sealed capsule on the London Eye.
Black Boy Joy
Finding your voiceβand your rhymesβduring tough times. Flying on your skateboard like nobody's watching. And more! From seventeen acclaimed Black male and non-binary authors comes a vibrant collection of stories, comics, and poems about the power of joy and the wonders of Black boyhood.
Iβd recommend this for maybe 11/12 plus - possibly older, it depends on the child. This book covers topics such as gender identity and LGBTQ+. If you are happy for your child to be exposed to these themes, itβs worth reading it with them so you can expand/answer questions, etc.
Skellig
By visionary writer David Almond
βTouched with a visionary intensity, this strange, hugely readable and life-affirming tale exercises every muscle of the imagination.β Guardian
βTruly original, mysterious and affecting β¦ Almond treads with delicate certainty, and the result is something genuine and true.β Philip Pullman
The Butterfly Lion
Written by Master storyteller Michael Morpugo.
A lyrical and moving tale of a young boy growing up in Africa, and his lifelong friendship with a white lion.
The Butterfly Lion examines the life-long bond that exists between a lonely young boy and a lion cub he befriends, a bond that is sustained across both time and distance.
Dream Big Little One
By author, illustrator and filmmaker Vashti Harrison
This beautifully illustrated board book edition of instant bestseller Little Leaders: Bold Women in Black History showcases women who changed the world and is the perfect goodnight book to inspire big dreams.
Little Leaders bold women in black history
By author, illustrator and filmmaker Vashti Harrison
Bold Women in Black History
Inspirational, Engaging, true stories or bold, trailblazing and visionary.
The 1000 Year Old Boy
"The 1000-year-old Boy is a breathtakingly epic story that you won't be able to put down. In Alfi e, Ross Welford has created an unusual and fascinating boy who you are rooting for right from the first word. An original, surprising, moving and compelling read - I loved it" - M. G. Leonard, author of Beetle Boy
Young Gifted and Black
Jamia Wilson has carefully curated this range of black icons and the book is stylishly brought together by Andrea Pippins' colourful and celebratory illustrations. Written in the spirit of Nina Simone's song "To Be Young, Gifted, and Black," this vibrant book is a perfect introduction to both historic and present-day icons and heroes.
"...to be revisited again and again...The candy-colored pages and straightforward stories are hard to resist..." -The New York Times
Have You Filled A Bucket Today?
'Have you filled a bucket today' is a brilliant book on positivity that helps instill values of caring, giving, and sharing in young readers.
With bright illustrations and beautifully written sentences that are simple to read, kids are taught a metaphor to be kind and loving towards themselves and others. Mindfulness and wellness are important topics to teach kids early on, and this message is delivered in an interesting and lovely way.
This book is probably great for all ages, from 5 to up to adults!
You Are Awesome
If you believe you can't do something, the chances are you won't try. But what if you really could get better at maths, or sport or exams? In fact, what if you could excel at anything you put your mind to?
You Are Awesome can help you do just that, inspiring and empowering young readers to find the confidence to realise their potential. The first children's book from Times journalist, two-time Olympian and best-selling author Matthew Syed, it uses examples of successful people from Mozart to David Beckham to demonstrate that success really is earned rather than given, and that talent can be acquired. With hard work and determination, practice and self-belief, there's no reason why anyone can't achieve anything.
Practical, insightful and positive, this is the book to help children build resilience, embrace their mistakes and grow into successful, happy adults.
Relax Kids, The Wishing Star
Using guided meditations based around traditional stories this is a gentle and fun way of introducing older children to the world of meditation and relaxation. It is designed to counteract some of the tensions with which we are all familiar at the end of a busy day, and offer parent and children together some quality time to relax and share.
The meditations and visualisations aim to develop children's imagination and provide them with skills that will be invaluable for the rest of their life. For children aged 5 upwards. The Relax Kids series is available in Europe, and in US since 2015. As featured on BBC's Dragon's Den.
Listening To My Body
Listening to my Body is an engaging and interactive book that guides children through the practice of naming their feelings and the physical sensations that accompany them.
By counsellor and author Gabi Garcia
Good Night Mr Tom
Winner of the Guardian Children's Fiction Award The story of young Willie Beech, evacuated to the country as Britain stands on the brink of the Second World War.
A sad, deprived child, he slowly begins to flourish under the care of old Tom Oakley - but his new-found happiness is shattered by a summons from his mother back in London. As time goes by Tom begins to worry when Willie doesn't answer his letters, so he goes to London to find him, and there makes a terrible discovery.
This book has sensitive topics, so please check before buying. I'd probably guess age 11 or 12 plus for most children for them to fully understand the text, but it really depends on your child.
The Boy In The Striped Pajamas
If you start to read this book, you will go on a journey with a nine-year-old boy named Bruno. (Though this isn't a book for nine-year-olds.) And sooner or later you will arrive with Bruno at a fence.
Fences like this exist all over the world. We hope you never have to encounter one.
βA small wonder of a bookβ Guardian
This book has sensitive topics, so please check before buying. I'd probably guess age 11 or 12 plus for most children to understand the text fully, but it depends on your child.
What books should every child read? Ages 3 plus
Here are some of the books my children loved, plus a couple of newer ones I thought would be great reads and would love to have read to my kids.
Many more books are available now with positive examples of Black, Asian, Indian, and Mixed and multi-ethnicity groups. And although I haven't read any of the newer, more diverse books for younger children, I have noticed a few beautiful books that have caught my eye because they celebrate black hair, brown skin and black culture. I've included a couple below.
Hair Love
A New York Times Bestseller and tie-in to Academy-Award Winning Short Film Hair Love
I love that Hair Love highlights the relationship between a Black father and daughter. Matthew leads the ranks of new creatives, telling unique stories of the Black experience. We need this.
- Jordan Peele, Actor & Filmmaker
It's up to Daddy to give his daughter an extra-special hair style in this ode to self-confidence and the love between fathers and daughters, from Academy-Award winning director and former NFL wide receiver Matthew A. Cherry and New York Times bestselling illustrator Vashti Harrison.
The Gruffalo
Walk further into the deep dark wood, and discover what happens when a quick-witted mouse comes face to face with an owl, a snake... and a hungry Gruffalo!
Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler's The Gruffalo is an undisputed modern classic and has become a best-selling phenomenon across the world with over 13.5 million copies sold.
This award-winning rhyming story of a mouse and a monster has found its way into the hearts and bedtimes of an entire generation of children and will undoubtedly continue to enchant children for years and years to come.
No home should be without The Gruffalo!
The Snail And The Whale
One tiny snail longs to see the world and hitches a lift on the tail of a whale. Together they go on an amazing journey, past icebergs and volcanoes, sharks and penguins, and the little snail feels so small in the vastness of the world. But when disaster strikes and the whale is beached in a bay, it's the tiny snail who saves the day.
The Snail and the Whale is a delightful tale of adventure and friendship by the award-winning team behind The Gruffalo, Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler.
You Choose
Imagine you could go anywhere, meet anyone and do anything. Where would you live? Where would you sleep? Who would be your friends? What games would you play? Go on . . . you choose!
With the help of Nick Sharratt's wonderfully detailed illustrations, Pippa Goodhart explores a whole range of scenarios where choosing is made fun! This is a timeless classic which children will love to return to again and again - and there's something new to find on every read!
Sulwe
Sulwe's skin is the colour of midnight. She's darker than everyone in her family, and everyone at school.
All she wants is to be beautiful and bright, like her mother and sister.
Then a magical journey through the night sky opens her eyes and changes everything.
In this stunning debut picture book, Lupita Nyong'o creates a whimsical and heartwarming story to inspire children to see their own unique beauty.
Monkey Puzzle
Boasting exciting extra content, this twentieth-anniversary edition of Donaldson and Schefflerβs picture book favourite confirms what a beautifully written and illustrated story Monkey Puzzle is. The charming tale of a young ape searching for their mummy, Monkey Puzzle is a delight for all pre-schoolers.
Daisy Eat Your Peas
Daisy does NOT like peas. And there is NOTHING that will get her to eat them.
Mum says she can have an extra pudding, a chocolate factory or a space rocket with DOUBLE RETRO LASER BLAMMERS - but it just won't work! Can quick-thinking Daisy save her tea time and come up with a cunning plan to turn the tables on Mum?
This wickedly funny story will appeal to cheeky children everywhere (especially fussy eaters!).
Room On The Broom
The witch and her cat fly happily over forests, rivers and mountains on their broomstick until a stormy wind blows away the witch's hat, bow and wand. They are retrieved by a dog, a bird and a frog, and each animal asks for a ride on the broom. They climb on, one after the next, until the broom is so heavy that it snaps in two! What will happen next as they tumble into a bog and meet a greedy dragon?
Room on the Broom is a funny story of quick wits and friendship and will captivate children with Julia Donaldson's irresistible verse and Axel Scheffler's spectacular illustrations.
I could list so many more books, especially in the younger children section! But I shall stop here.
Summary
I hope this has been in some way helpful to you. Itβs a bit of a mind dump. Still, honestly, I do feel itβs representative of our reading over the years, and both of my kids are pretty open-minded, respectful, loving, accepting, compassionate, and kind and Iβm thankful for that.
Feel free to let me know what you think :)
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I'm Samantha, a London-based Portrait, Newborn and Family Photographer, Content Marketer, and Educator. I've been capturing the essence of adults, children, and babies since 2012.
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